When Is It Time For An Ultimatum?
Laying down an ultimatum to your partner is serious business and shouldn’t be taken lightly. If you’re going to give them an ultimatum, you need to accept the fact that it could mean the end of the relationship. Here are some points to consider if you’re thinking about giving your partner an ultimatum, and how you’ll know if it’s the right time for one:
· When the relationship wont move forward on it’s own. If your relationship is stuck in one spot and has been for a while, you might be getting frustrated, bored and resentful of your partner. You can’t expect the relationship to move at light speed, but if you’ve been stuck in the same place for a long time and don’t see it moving forward on it’s own, you might be ready for an ultimatum to get to the next step. Your partner might be ok with just keeping things as they are forever, but if you need the relationship to move forward in order to stay happy, then you may want to consider an ultimatum.
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